He named their first daughter 'Aryana' after a cheerleader he used to date in highschool. "Oh, she was gorgeous", he told her, his face ecstatic as the memory of those days effortlessly etched themselves on his youthful limbs . Hayami looked at him, confused, "What is gorgeous?" She asked in her hesitant English. "Oh," he laughed almost cruelly, "I forgot you speak very rudimentary English. Oops, I mean basic...simple. Yes, you hardly know any English". He paused. "Gorgeous means very very pretty". He elongated the verys deliberately, savoring each one. Then, looking at her hurt face, he hurried to add, "You shouldn't feel bad. After all, I married you, brought you here to America, availed you of a Green Card...Now, you too can live the American dream".
Friday, September 10, 2021
The Japanese Student
Saturday, September 4, 2021
Cling not, and it shalt be...
...bestowed unto thee
A flash of brilliance strikes the brain cells and lo, an idea manifests out of nowhere, lighting up that otherwise dull space. Somewhere in a moment of elation my being wows. And the hippocampus goes on a wild spree finding ways to label and store it in the right compartment in order to revoke it later. And just when the task has been carried out satisfactorily, poof! the idea vanishes. Like a candle flame extinguishing without even the slightest brush of the passing zephyr. Returning to the obscure dungeon of my diurnal thoughts, fruitlessly I scramble for the least spark of that genius which was mine for one triumphant moment. What happened to it, which cerebral or psychogenic blackhole sucked it in, leaving no trace behind of its existence? Into which realm of non-being did it evanesce? Was it the overwhelming stimulus generated by the ingenuity of the thought and the subsequent effort of the mind to label and organize it within the shallow racks of the brain that impelled it to escape? Eschew mortality?
Sunday, August 29, 2021
Vexed?
A friend from Norway writes:
While owner Tony Roman's stand might sound like an extreme, it does illustrate the extent of the backlash against the vaccine in parts of America. But, to Roman, it's merely a way to pledge his restaurant as a Constitutional battleground, "I feel blessed to be on the front lines of this battle in defense of Liberty and Freedom".
Coming back to Schruger, his rationale is based on the global statistics according to which America leads the world in the number of Covid cases and deaths in terms of the percentage of its population. "Maybe", he opines, "exercise programs should be made mandatory for Federal employees and presented as a model".
All said and done, there's no gainsaying the fact that the global vaccination drive is set to split people further in more than one way. I remember concluding one of my posts titled 'Poised for Change' written in March 2020, at the wee beginnings of the pandemic, with: We have no criterion whereby to assess the challenges of such a pandemic, but we do know that our best response would depend on global empathy, cooperation, and community building.
Hopes and aspirations were rife that we would emerge from the pandemic, a better people, kinder and more tolerant, more understanding of the challenges that lie ahead in terms of our very survival intricately linked with that of the planet Earth. Naively I had anticipated a new direction for our world, not just in terms of working online from home, but compelling changes in the the very fabric of the human consciousness:
We can no longer sustain a lifestyle which cruises on a conveyor belt regularity, and a system which doesn’t give time to pause, to question, to re-orient, re-think, re-direct...for, it wants coerced stability, not revolutions. Its goal is economic prosperity, not the freedom of the human spirit.
Unfortunately, a year and a half later, we seem to be back to square one, determined to get right back on the same track on which we were. The only difference being now we are masked, sanitized, huffing and puffing to return to the rat-race. And we stand more asunder than ever, between being vaxxed and not vaxxed. A vexing situation indeed!
Friday, August 20, 2021
The Afghanistan Diary
We are going to punish somebody for this attack, but just who or what will be blown to smithereens for it is hard to say. Maybe Afghanistan, maybe Pakistan or Iraq, or possibly all three at once. Who knows?
Wednesday, August 11, 2021
Springboarding into the Realm of Poetry
(Variations in Faulkner)
Because of the explicit pathos borne by the title, it took me a while to pick up 'As I lay dying', authored by William Faulkner. Termed as a 'dark comedy' in the literary circles, Faulkner claimed to have completed the novel within a week, invoking the Muse only during the nocturnal hours.
Tuesday, August 3, 2021
Finding Balance in Imbalance
"Wabi Sabi is a beauty of things imperfect, impermanent, and incomplete. It is a beauty of things modest and humble. It is a beauty of things unconventional.”
Wabi is about the humility that emerges from a state of solitude, which in turn gives the ability to see through the superficial and connect with the truth. Free from embellishments, it seizes life in its rich raw details and is contemplative of things that are simple, and incorporate rustic beauty.
Sabi, on the other hand expresses quaintness and loneliness which accompanies aging. In the post-medieval Japanese vision of art, such old, disfigured and discarded items donned on a new symbolism, representing things touched by the auric grace of time.
Wabi Sabi, therefore, far from being slick and modern, is a quirky flea market piece, a hand-me-down heirloom, or an aged wooden floor, epitomizing simplicity, natural beauty, and a perfectly imperfect feel.
The story of Wabi Sabi finds its humble origin in the tale of Sen no Rikyu and his tea master Takeena Joo. Upon his master’s request, Rikyu cleans and rakes the garden to perfection, and as a final touch, shakes the cherry tree, allowing the flower petals to fall nonchalantly around the yard! This legend, in its quintessential simplicity, exemplifies the inherent poetry of Wabi Sabi, seeking to find a balance with a carefully designed insouciance. Both ikebana, the art of flower arrangement, and the 17-syllabled haiku are rooted in this tradition.
Broken shadows of tall elms
zigzagging down the footpath
and spilling onto the
narrow asphalt road...
Broken views from
cracked glass window,
ready to crawl in;
Broken remnants of
ancient monuments
filtering the evening sun,
summoning the banshees;
Broken frame, glued together,
holding a b-w photograph
of our parents on their wedding day.
Broken pieces of blue sky,
shimmering in a puddle
after the monsoon shower;
Broken floor uncovering
a steady file of Brahmin ants:
exposing the underworld;
Broken reflections of
snow-peaked mountains
rolling in the waves.
Broken, unfettered, and erratic,
ready to be something new,
something different and
explosively poetic...
ah! I yearn to be
a shard of that brokenness
to feel whole again.
Tuesday, July 20, 2021
Schooling vs. Education
From an ecological standpoint, the more diverse an ecosystem, the better chance of survival it has. To use this analogy, current directions and concepts of educational structures are not geared up to sustain diversity. Against a scenario, where education and economy are more and more interlinked and interdependent, the lofty aim of learning tends to get reduced to preparing students for the job market. With the tag of human capital being attached to an individual right from early years, this process which revolves around acquisition of knowledge, skills and values has failed to create an environment which fosters independent and critical thinking and instills confidence.
The word education traces its etymology to the Greek word, 'ducere', which means, 'to draw', and with the added prefix 'e', it literally translates into 'draw out'. So, the very premise of education is that an individual holds the knowledge within...and, its objective is merely to assist him/her in finding the source of that Knowledge, and learn to manifest it.